______8. Make home movies/take pictures of you
and the child together.
______9. Make a Witness List of people who have
observed you doing all the above
______10. At the last minute before anything is
filed, clean out ALL valuables, guns, jewelry,
personal effects, photos that mean a lot to you,
etc. from the house and put in storage. Get your
wife's empty pill bottles and any mental records.
Deny her anything to hock to pay for attorney fees
and deny her control of anything she can hold over
your head. Assume that
whatever you leave in the house will never be seen
again. Do this even if you NOW have
control of the house. DO NOT
MOVE OUT OF THE CHILDREN'S RESIDENCE EVEN
TEMPORARILY UNLESS ORDERED BY A COURT! DO NOT LEAVE
CHILDREN WITHOUT FOOD, UTILITIES ETC. YOU CAN
DIRECTLY PURCHASE THINGS THEY NEED .
______11. DO NOT ACQUIRE OR EXPOSE ANY NEW
GIRLFRIEND OR ALLOW HER TO INTERMEDDLE UNTIL THE
DIVORCE IS FINAL!!!! This will make things go MUCH
smoother. Spend time with your kids instead of
dating. Live alone in a place with a bedroom for the
kids, full of toys/computers etc if the court
orders you out of the marital residence.
______12. DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT, RECORD AND
LOG EVERYTHING IN A
______13. KEEP AN EXHIBIT LOG, NUMBERING EACH
POTENTIAL EXHIBIT AS YOU GO .KEEPING HUNDREDS OR
THOUSANDS OF POTENTIAL EXHIBITS ORGANIZED CAN BE A
NIGHTMARE. USE EMAIL AND WRITTEN CONFIRMATIONS OF
IMPORTANT CONVERSATIONS. CREATE A PAPER TRAIL.
______14 Make NO threats of
violence,EVER! Do nothing even remotely
threatening or violent. It
will totally destroy your case. Bite your
tongue, no name calling. Always be quiet , polite
and courteous. YOU must be the guy in the white hat.
Let her be the vindictive one!
______15 If your state law
allows ,carry a secret pocket tape recorder
(turned on) anytime you are in your spouses
______16 Review this list with a local attorney
USE OF THIS LIST DOES NOT
ESTABLISH AN ATTORNEY/CLIENT RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN
THE USER AND ATTORNEY ISAACS OR THE FATHERS RIGHTS
FOUNDATION. USE THIS LIST ONLY WHEN OK'D BY A LOCAL